Growing up in Wichita in the sixties I always knew
that there were two Israeli institutions that affiliated Jews supported. At
just six-years-old I went to religious school week after week clutching a dime
in my fist in order to save up to buy a tree. For twenty-five dimes I could
have a Jewish National Fund tree planted in Israel in honor or in memory of
whomever I chose.* The other organization I knew we supported was Hadassah Women.
Throughout the year old clothes and other cast-offs would be put aside, saved
for the annual summer Hadassah Rummage Sale. As a teenager my friends and I
joined our mothers and the other “old” women to volunteer to sort, hang, mark,
and sell the many items.
A
decade and a half later, in the mid-eighties, I found myself living in Israel.
Those trees I had planted were part of lovely nature preserves that my family
and I enjoyed using for picnics. The
Hadassah Women’s Organization has two hospitals in the Jerusalem area and both establishments
made positive impacts on our lives.
We
had not been living in Israel even a year when we realized that one of our
children was reading our lips. A panicked visit to the ear specialist and a
subsequent hearing test confirmed our worries. This child had a severe hearing
loss due to fluid build-up in his ears. The specialist, reportedly the top in
the Jerusalem area, recommended the simple surgery of placing tubes in our
child’s ears. His older brother had had the same surgery while we were still
living in America. It had been a quick, painless operation and afterwards the
ear infections and hearing problems disappeared. With little concern we agreed
to do the procedure. There was a problem, though. Whereas in America placement of tubes was an
out-patient process that meant only a couple of hours in the hospital here in
Israel it was then an overnight procedure. Although our specialist was highly
recommended he practiced out of a backward, now thankfully obsolete, hospital.
That
hospital had been built in the time of the Ottoman Empire and it seemed as if
little inside the building had changed since then. My son was given a bed in a
ward with about eleven other children. Large floor-to-ceiling windows lined one
wall. Although they were open they did little to dispel the summer heat spell.
I don’t want to describe the state of the bathrooms. Thankfully, there was
running water.
Pre-op was done in that large room with
everybody else. Each child received their anesthesia there and was then wheeled
away on a gurney to the operating room. My husband and I sat waiting on our
son’s bed for the duration of his short operation. To our shock he came
straight back to us without being in wake-up. There was blood coming from one
of his ears and we were given a piece of gauze to clean him up. We were the
ones to administer to him as the nurses were too busy.
In
the evening he was given a light supper and then we settled down for the night.
My husband left to sleep by friends and I shared the narrow bed with my son.
Neither of us slept very well but we slept better than the mother of the baby.
She had only a hard chair and the rail of her baby’s crib to rest her head on. What
a relief to finally be released the following morning. Thankfully, our son’s
hearing was back to normal and all was okay, but it had been a distressing
experience.
So, a few months later, when we were told another
child would need a different minor surgery I balked. There was no way I was
willing to go through the experience I had just had. The doctor was reassuring
though and told me this time it would be different because we would be going to
Hadassah Hospital at Mount Scopus. How right the doctor was!
This surgery could not be done outpatient. In fact,
this child would have to spend two nights in the hospital. However, he was
given a room with only one other child. There were two chairs in that room that
made into beds, one for one parent of each child. A clean bathroom stood next
to the room and it was meant to be shared with just one other room. The nurses
were kind and sympathetic and we left the hospital not only thankful that our
child was okay. We were also grateful for the positive hospital experience we
had had.
Throughout the years we have continued to have
positive experiences. One of our children spent two weeks in Hadassah Hospital
Ein Kerem with the doctors trying to understand why he could not walk. It was
not an easy two weeks but at the end he left the hospital skipping. In our
appreciation we donated a wheelchair and eight years later he was able to serve
in the infantry of the IDF.
One of our most poignant experiences was when our
five-year-old grandson was finally medically able to have his brit milah. He
was under anesthesia and the circumcision was done along with another surgery.
The festive meal celebrating the milestone was held in a special room of the
hospital.**
Our saddest experience was the five days my father
spent in Hospice at Hadassah Mount Scopus. Obviously, it was not an easy time
but the sensitivity of the nurses and doctors made it bearable. Sometimes, when I need to be in Hadassah Mount
Scopus for doctor’s appointments or visits, I take a few minutes to stop by the
Hospice. I don’t go into the ward. Rather I stand at the entrance and take a
few minutes to remember my father. I am so thankful he had a peaceful end.
Of course, like all hospitals, Hadassah Medical
Organization is not perfect. There are sometimes red tape, long waits,
irritating employees, and incompetent staff. Still, the HMO is a professional
institution that, only with Shaare Tzedek Hopsital, serves the entire Jerusalem
and outlying areas. So I have been concerned past the few weeks as financial difficulties
caused slow-downs and strikes in the Hadassah hospitals. It is not clear to me
what the cause of these financial difficulties were, poor management, too quick
of expansions, drop in donations, or some other reason. As this week winds down
the strikes have ended and hopefully routine will return to the hospitals. I
pray that it is so. Israel needs their Hadassah Hospitals.
2 comments:
As a nurse, I especially appreciate your story. As family I love it and you for telling it. What a wonderful thing to do, donate a wheelchair. And I know, as a former hospice nurse, you Dad died with peace and love. Thank you for another wonderful story.
Esther
Esther, Daddy had fond memories of the time he was in St. Francis when you were working there and you came in each evening to tell him good night and tuck him in. It is such a blessing to have a good nurse.
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