It was after
two a.m. when Mimi called the ambulance. Joe didn’t want her to, but her
husband’s choking cough had her terrified. The medics arrived in less than five
minutes and the first thing they did was give Joe oxygen. The choking stopped
but not the cough. It was decided to take him to the emergency room.
Four hours
later, as the sun was rising, Joe was given a diagnosis of sorts.
“It might be
bronchitis or it might be whooping cough…”
“Whooping
cough?!” Mimi interrupted.
“Doctor,”
Joe interjected. “I had all my
vaccinations as a child.”
“Yes, well,”
the doctor rubbed his eyes. “You’re in your sixties. The vaccinations wear out
with time and there’re these young parents who think they know more than the
medical establishment and refuse to have their children inoculated and so the
disease is out there.”
“I thought
schools wouldn’t take kids without their vaccinations,” Mimi spoke slowly
trying to digest what she’d been told.
“Lots of
those children go to private schools.” The doctor shook his head with disgust.
‘I’m giving you an antibiotic to stop you from being contagious if it is
whooping cough. Also some cough medicine and an aspirator. You need a few days
of bed rest. I’ll contact you as soon as we have the results from the blood
test and we know for sure what it is.”
The doctor signed
Joe’s discharge and sent him on his way.
Joe followed instructions and once home collapsed into bed. Mimi
showered and set off for work. Extra coffee and chocolate got her through the
day but she was exhausted by the time she arrived home.
Still, she couldn’t
stop thinking about the doctor’s words. Instead of an early night she sat down
at the computer and composed an email. Dear ---, it read. In light of
the wide outbreak of measles, whooping cough, and other diseases once
controlled by inoculations, I urge you to pass a law fining all private
schools, kindergartens, and day care centres which accept children without their
required vaccinations. She sent it out to every government official
connected with education or health that she could think of. In the morning she sent
a copy to the editor of the local paper. Mimi was pleased to see they printed
it the next day. She was even more pleased with the positive responses her letter
received. Some of the legislators agreed with her email and her initiative was
gaining momentum. A week later she was interviewed on the six o’clock news.
Mimi was
passionate as she spoke calling the parents who didn’t give their children the
required shots parasites. “They’re counting on everyone else to do what they
don’t want to do. We’re giving our children shots, dealing with their fevers
and crankiness afterwards and they benefit from it. It’s not right!”
The
interviewer tried to be fair. “A lot of those parents are worried their
children will develop autism from the vaccinations.”
Mimi had
done her homework. “That study was proven to have had false data. Its author lost
his medical licence.”
She was
proud of herself for speaking so well. Not everyone was as enthusiastic though.
In fact it was on her way home that she received a phone call from her older
daughter.
“Mom,”
Rachel plunged straight in to her complaint. “How could you call parents who
don’t vaccinate their kids parasites?”
“Well…”
“Don’t you
know you’re talking about your own daughter?”
“What are
you telling me?” Mimi asked warily.
“Karen
didn’t give her boys their shots.”
“Are you
serious?” Mimi gasped.
“Yes, and
she’s very hurt you called her a parasite.”
Mimi
resolved she’d call her younger daughter as soon as she arrived home but Karen
pre-empted her.
“Mom,” her
daughter’s voice was shrill. “If you get your law passed I’ll have to quit work.
I’ll have no place to send the boys.”
“Why aren’t
you giving them their vaccinations?” Mimi kept her voice calm, but her pulse raced
and her stomach clenched.
“Dan won’t
hear of it,” Karen exclaimed.
“Why not?”
Mimi had always thought her son-in-law to be a reasonable, pragmatic man not
given to hysteria.
“Growing up
his next-door neighbors had a son with autism. They were told it was from the
shots. Nothing will convince him otherwise. Please,” Karen’s voice was tearful.
“stop this law.”
“I may have
started the snowball, but it gained its momentum on its own and it’s out of my
hands.”
“At least,
stop pushing it! Think of your grandsons!”
Mimi
pictured Karen’s freckle-faced boys whom she loved as much, if not more, than
Joe, being disabled by polio or becoming sterile from mumps.
“I am
thinking of them,” she spoke emotionally. “I’m sorry, Karen.”
Five days
went by and Mimi didn’t hear from either of her girls. And then she got a
What’s
App from Rachel. Check out Facebook. She did and saw what Karen had
posted.
An Open
Letter to My Mother,
I don’t
know what has happened to the open-minded, tolerant mother you were. Parents
make the best choices they can for their children and it’s wrong for the
government to interfere in their decision-making. I love you, I always will, in
spite of your cruel actions but I expect you to stop your campaign against my
family and others like us who have made an educated decision not to inoculate
our precious children.
As Mimi read
the letter she felt her heart beating and face flush. Tears sprang to her eyes.
“Joe,” she
called somewhat hysterically. “Read this!”
Her husband
complied and Mimi tried to breath normally.
“What do you
think I should do?” she asked plaintively.
“Well.” Before
he could speak further Joe was hit with a whooping cough fit; the blood test
had come back positive. While she watched him struggle for control her resolve
set in. She had no need of her husband’s advice. Sitting in front of her computer she composed
her own letter just to her younger daughter.
Dear
Karen,
There are
no words to describe the love a mother has for her child and you, Dan, and the
boys are as dear to me as my own life. I would do almost anything to prove that
love to you but just because it’s my daughter doing something wrong, I cannot
claim that it’s right. I pray with time you’ll understand that what I’ve done
is not against but, rather for the good of my beloved grandsons. I pray that someday you will forgive me.
Love,
your mother
3 comments:
Very well written Ester, as usual. I agree with every word!!! If people truly love their children and care about their health and welfare and those around them, they will vaccinate their children and stop believing "fake news". It is a gift from Hashem that we now have the medical know how and technology to prevent horrible diseases, we should accept this
and say Thank You Hashem!
I agree with every word you wrote in your comment.
interesting, ester. i've never given much thought to this issue. my kids and grandkids have all been vaccinated. how's avraham's cough? have they determined what caused it? ariela
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